Physical beauty is
Every human love to be validated or affirmed that they are beautiful, strong, smart, etc… I will take it a step further; I believe your husband or partner should validate after having kids. Receiving validation is one of the greatest “push gifts”. Mothers must be like kids and sometimes validate themselves. Especially if you are a single mom, you must validate yourself. I caught my toddler in the mirror, telling herself she is beautiful, and I agreed. After having a baby our hormones are all over the place and let’s just face it, your body is never like pre-pregnancy, validation is essential to tell them in a card, text or verbally.
When She Can Be Herself
We are naturally born with great personalities and the world we live in can alter our personality because we must fit in a certain standard. The standard role is that mothers must stay home, cook, clean and have sole’ responsibility to care for the children. Being a mother has enhanced my current personality and hasn’t
- A Day at The Spa
Let’s face it, who doesn’t like to be pampered. To have some time to yourself while getting a
- Freeing up Her Time
After becoming a mother time has become sexy to me. It seems like there isn’t enough time in the day to do all the things that are needed. The morning starts with getting the kids off to school, cleaning, washing clothes, preparing lunch if you have kids at home, preparing dinner, homework, tend to your husband and then the day repeats. If you are a working mom like me then add an 8-hour working day to this. Talking about exhausted and mentally frustrated. There isn’t time for yourself, going out or hobbies. It’s nice when my husband has the laundry done and he orders dinner for the night. Now I am feeling beautiful inside.
- Glam Photos!
Don’t just tell me I am beautiful to show me I am beautiful. One of my friends got her makeup professionally done by a makeup artist and took some tasteful, professional, romantic pictures for her husbands’ eyes only. After recently having a baby she thought she would feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, instead, she felt confident, beautiful and exciting. MAC and Sephora do makeup if you purchase a product. MAC has an amount you must purchase check with your local MAC store. Schedule with a professional photographer that you trust and are comfortable with. I believe my friend used a female photographer that was a good friend. If you are up for a challenge have your husband/ partner take the photo using an amazing professional camera and the nice part is you can take unlimited photos, save money and, use the camera in the future.
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